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One

The Insight of a Saint on the Eve of Martyrdom

On the morning of February 17th, 1941, just hours before his arrest, St. Maximilian Kolbe dictated to Br. Arnold a burning insight: the Holy Spirit is the uncreated Immaculate Conception and Mary is the created Immaculate Conception, because she is a perfect human expression of the Spirit. This was not mere devotional language, it expressed a deep theological truth. Kolbe believed that Mary is so united to the Spirit that they act as one.

In earlier writings, Kolbe said that Mary is, in a sense, the “quasi-incarnation” of the Holy Spirit. He didn’t mean the Spirit became human, Mary and the Holy Spirit are two different persons, one human and one divine. But their union is so close that the Spirit chooses to work through Mary in everything. The result is that when the Spirit acts in the world, we often see only Mary. Just as the Son became visible in Jesus, the Spirit becomes visible in Mary, not by becoming human, but by acting so closely through her that she shows us the Spirit’s presence.

Kolbe often called Mary the “spouse” of the Spirit, though he said that word was far too weak. He preferred to say she is “almost the incarnation” of the Spirit, because we encounter the Spirit in her. He lived and died by this truth.

Two

The Spirit’s Feminine and Maternal Mission Through Mary

The Holy Spirit’s mission is deeply maternal; the Spirit conceives Jesus in us, nourishes us, and helps us grow to be like Christ. But here’s the key: the Spirit chooses to carry out this mission through Mary. She’s not divine. She’s human. But she is the perfect human expression of the Spirit’s motherly work.

At the Annunciation, the Spirit came upon Mary and formed Jesus in her womb. At Pentecost, the same Spirit came down again, this time to form the Church, with Mary right at the center. In both cases, the Spirit and Mary worked together. One divine, one human. One invisible, one visible. The Spirit’s maternal love became real and present through Mary. Mary’s spiritual motherhood reveals what the Spirit does to conceive and form Christ within us.

What the Spirit does spiritually, Mary shows us in the flesh. That’s why we can say Mary is like a sacrament of the Spirit: a living sign through whom the Spirit acts. Just as the Spirit formed Jesus in Mary, the Spirit now forms Jesus in us through her.

Three

But Doesn’t This Sound Like a Different Religion?

Here’s the tension: isn’t turning to Mary for everything suspiciously like another religion? Shouldn’t we be focused on Jesus? That’s a fair question, and it’s one the Gospel itself answers.

We are Christians, followers of Jesus. But what did Jesus do? He lived for thirty years in intimate communion with Mary. At Cana, He allowed her intuition to prompt His first public miracle. At the Cross, He entrusted the whole Church to her. And on Pentecost, the Holy Spirit descended upon the apostles with Mary at the center. If we are to imitate Christ, then we must do as He did: live in communion with Mary, guided by the Spirit through her.

Four

What Does It Mean to Take Mary Into Our Home?

In John 19:27, the beloved disciple “took Mary into his own” (εἰς τὰ ἴδια)—not just his house, but his inner life, his soul. That’s the model for us. If the Spirit acts through Mary, and if Mary is the perfect human expression of the Spirit, then welcoming Mary is the most concrete and personal way to receive the maternal mission of the Holy Spirit.

When we invite Mary into our daily life, we experience the Spirit’s action, conceiving Jesus in us, educating us in His likeness, and guiding us through the challenges of life with divine care.

Five

A Personal Relationship with Mary Means a Life Led by the Spirit

Therefore, we must cultivate a personal relationship with Mary, not as an alternative to Jesus, but precisely to become like Jesus. Mary is not a detour but the Spirit’s chosen pathway. If Jesus, for thirty hidden years, entrusted Himself to Mary’s guidance, how much more should we? To follow Jesus is to imitate His way of life. He entrusted Himself to Mary. So must we. When we allow Mary to mother us, the Spirit forms Christ in us. When we are led by Mary, we are led by the Spirit. This is the divine pattern revealed in Scripture and fulfilled in the Church.

The simplest way to live this is to become Mary’s friend. Talk to her often, as one friend to another. Then pay attention to what she seems to be inspiring you to do, and take that first step. This good Mother rejoices to see her little child take the first step and when you stumble, she’ll be right there to catch you.

Suggested Resolutions:

Choose one resolution for today to help you grow closer to God, or create your own. Here are some ideas to inspire you. 

• Take time each day to talk to Mary like a real friend. Tell her about your day, share with her your hopes, and listen quietly to her inspirations.

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